james and i just finished watching shortbus. early on someone says " "i need to love everyone"; did you just hear me say that? i mean, i can't even meet everyone." and yet, in the end, this is what it's about: that desire does not have to be separate from love, and that this can unite you with everything. particularly among those of us who desire wildly. that this can be enough; to be enmeshed in this web of desire that comes to be love for everyone. that this is it. that it can save you.